7 Subtle Signs People Are Subconsciously Attracted Towards You
Have you ever been in situation where people are naturally attracted towards you? You yourself don’t know the reason, but people, even the unknown ones are mysteriously attracted towards you. They try to strike a conversation with you even though they have nothing to talk about.
If you have experienced such situations, then should know these 7 signs people are attracted towards you. Knowing these reasons will also help you weeding out good-natured people with the phony ones. So, it’s better to know whether people are really attracted towards you or just faking it.
(1) They Maintain Eye Contact
There are only a few times when a person looks straight into your eye and doesn’t flinch – First, if they are angry and want to assert dominance, and second is when they feel comfortable around you. If a person looks directly into your eye and sticks to it, you can be sure that he/she is interested in you.
They may not be romantically interested in you, yet, but, they subconsciously find your aura attractive. We human have certain cues through which we express our emotions and feelings. Maintaining eye contact is one of the primary ways.
Now, if this happens to you too often, then it’s a sure sign that you really are attractive. Either physically attractive or energetically attractive, or maybe both.
(2) They Cannot Stop Talking To You
You probably guessed it right! If people maintain eye contact with you for longer periods of time, then they sure are going to speak with you longer. But, there’s a difference between “just” chatting and talking as if they have met a friend after a really long time.
At one point of time, they forget how long it has been, and how much they have shared about themselves. They might also try to maintain contact with you but asking for your number or your social media handle.
Or how about you? Have you ever met such people? I have met several such people who have a magnetic personality. One thing is very common among every magnetic person I’ve ever met: They are down to earth and humble.
(3) You Get Random Smiles & Compliments
We express 99% of our emotions through our face. You might be surprised to know that when someone sees you, the first thing that they see is your face and then your feet. In fact, you do it too, but it’s sooo ingrained into your subconscious that you don’t notice.
But how is this information related to whether you naturally attract people or not? It’s not always creepy when a random person smiles at you for no reason. Especially when this happens with more than just a handful of people. This shows that they find you attractive.
You know what? It’s rather easy to be synthetically beautiful. It’s entirely a money game. But, not everybody can be naturally beautiful. This is what we call grace, and elegance. So, if you’re receiving random smiles and compliments from people, then you are beautiful.
(4) They Face Towards You While Talking
I’m not a psychology graduate, but I have observed that people instinctively face towards you when they are interested in you while talking.
Pro tip: If you want someone out of your life, the best way is the silent way. Just don’t look at them when they talk and they’ll eventually stop bothering you.
Just observe this when people talk. Are they facing you when you chat with them? If these three things (eye contact, more talking, facing towards you) are aligned, then it’s a sure-sign that the person is attracted towards you.
Though this doesn’t apply to people who are shy and introverted, but that’s a different matter.
(5) They Have A Raised Pitch While Talking
When you’re having a hard time, depressed and too lazy to do anything, one thing that get effected is your speech. People with less confidence often speak lower than their natural pitch. I don’t know the exact reason, but I’m pretty sure you might have personally experienced this.
So, when a person (who is sad and hopeless) talks with you with a raised voice, it’s a sure sign that they feel hopeful around you. They might also see you as the “point of light in pitch darkness.” These people take you as a role-model and respect you to the fullest.
Do you know anyone who does this? If yes, then you’ve got someone who secretly respects and loves you (maybe not romantically).
(6) They Unconsciously Mimic Your Body Language
You’ll see this common among children. A son mimics his dad’s body language, and a daughter does the same with her mom’s. Why is that? What do they get by copying someone’s body language?
This is linked to psychology. When a person, a child or an adult, follows an another person’s body language, it’s an indication that he/she wants to become like the other person. So, if a person mimics your body language, there’s a high chance that they are subconsciously trying to sync with you. somewhere in their mind they think that copying you will bring them closer to you.
Husbands and wives mimic their partner’s body language. Surprisingly, this also happens among animals. So, you know the drill. Be observant! See how many people mimic your body language when they are with you.
(7) They Don’t Mind Sharing Personal Secrets
If there’s one sign that a person is attracted towards you, it’s this one: Sharing personal secrets. They trust you enough to share even their darkest secrets on a whim. Yeah, on a whim! When a person is conscious of what they do, it’s hard to extract any personal information from them.
Usually, a person becomes vulnerable when they are with someone whom they trust and feel safe. Hence, when they drop their guards, everything behind that artificial mask fall off.
But, it’s a risky deal! Try to stay away from people who share their life’s darkest secrets, especially if it’s insanely shady ones. A lot of times, they share secrets and trap you into some kind of a “contract.” They end-up getting obsessed over you and try to meddle with your life.
It’s great to receive love from people and become a role-model, but it has it’s own risks. Take care of yourself and have a good time.
YOU ARE WONDERFUL!!